Obsession Oh Obsession
Halah...Obsesi...Masalah gue banget tuh...Tadi baru baca artikel soal obsession with someone gitu di website...Dan sepertinya dari tanda2 itu, gue termasuk orang yang punya penyakit terobsesi sama orang lain...Contohnya, gue terobsesi ama Hyde, Tadashi (pokoknya yang mirip Hyde), terus gue juga terobsesi pengen punya cowo bule...
Many times people get confused and think of they're friends or loved ones as their possessions so they become very possessive.
haha...emangnya gue begini ya? mungkin iya...hmmm....
Being possessive leads to being obsessive. Some obsessions can come from something that effected someone so much that they become passionate about that object or anything that reminds them of that object.
hahaha...iya banget...=.=
Other obsessions can come from something as simple as idolizing something or someone. But anyway, the passion to fulfill their obsession can be reduced or lost when people get "closure".
yang ini gue juga...
Maka terbuktilah kalo gue bener2 mengalami masalah obsesi pada seseorang..
Obsessing on people is obviously wrong but most people aren't even aware of what they are actually thinking.
People confuse the difference between love, lust and desire. All those feelings are good and natural but only if there's some sort of control over your feelings.
Haha...intinya sih cinta berlebih n udah ga sehat ya? Iya sih gue tau kalo terobsesi ama orang tuh ga bagus..tapi gimana dong...ngga bisa dikontrol niiiih...
Being obsessed with someone famous usually stems from feeling insecure about who you are and wishing to be someone else (the person obsessed usually want to be the famous person or be like that person).
Hah? Masa sih? Gue agak2 ragu sama pernyataan yang satu ini. Masa gue pengen jadi Hyde? Nggak layaw, gue sih cukup jadi istrinya aja ^^
Most obsessions come up when someone is trying to fill a sense of emptiness in their life.
Huahaha...nyindiiiir...!!
Some people get obsessed when they've lost something in their past or present so they obsess on something that reminds them of the lost person or thing.
Hmm...am I? kayanya gue belom pernah punya Hyde n kehilangan dia deh...
It usually stems from not being able to accept loss or not understanding that many things in life can't be forever.
Haaaah? Maksud lo??
Ah emang ga sepenuhnya cocok sama keadaan gue sih, tapi banyak juga kesamaannya...
Huhu...duuuh...kok ga dikasih tau cara ngilangin sifat yg gampang terobsesi ini sih??
Tapi kalo gue terobsesi sama Hyde or Tadashi kenapa ya? Yang pasti bukan karena pernah merasa kehilangan (orang sebelumnya juga belum pernah memiliki..=.=)
Oh iya gue tauuuu!! Itu karena saking gue cintanya ama Hyde, jadi terobsesi ama dia, eh trus jadi terobsesi ama Tadashi karena dia mirip Hyde...
EH iya, gue juga punya satu masalah obsesi lainnya...
Terobsesi pengen nikah muda...!!
hahaha
(sebenernya pengen nikah muda sama...*beep*)
Halah...udah gila lo Chi!
bold articles are from: http://advice7.com/emotions_feelings/obsessions.html
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